50 Days With AZINMAGBA JOHN(Day 10)

RULE 10:- BE PART OF CHANGE(lolz,I'm not campaigning for APC o!)

When I say change, I mean possible impart. It's my observation that the  successful people in this life are those who wring every last ounce of satisfaction and energy out of life. They do that by practising this simple Rule ; they pay attention to what they have control over and economically they're time - wise, and let go of the rest.
If someone asks you directly for help , that's something you can do or not do as you choose. If the whole world asks you for help, then there is a very little you can do. Beating yourself up  is counter productive and such a waste of time. I am not saying you should stop caring about things or to walk away from those in need. Quite the opposite in many ways , but there are areas in which you can make personal difference and other areas where you'll never even make a dent. You dedicate yourself personally to things you can change, areas where you can make a difference, then life becomes richer and more fulfilled.
Obviously, if we come together we can change pretty well anything, but this is a Rule for You - these are your personal set , it's about what only you can change. If you have ear of the President, you might be able to shape policy that affects the entire nation. If you have the ear of a General , you might avert a war. If you have the ear of an Editor, you might get your name in prints. If you have the ear of the Head Waiter , you might serve the best table e.t.c. So whose ear have you got? What influence do you have and what change can you effect by using that influence?
Often the only ear we have is our own. The only definite influence we have is over ourselves. The only nothing we can really change is exactly this, OURSELVES. Wonderful! What an opportunity to do some good , What a chance to make a real contribution. Begin with yourself and let it spread outwards. Remember if you change yourself , you influence your household, your community, your town, your state , your country and the world in whole. This way we don't have to waste time preaching to those who won't listen . We don't have to waste effort or energy or resources on things over which we have no control and no success in. By changing ourselves though, we can be assured of a RESULT.

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