50 Days With AZINMAGBA JOHN(Day 21)

RULE 21: HAVE DIGNITY

I have spent years watching successful people and I don't just mean successful as in having lots of money or big shot career. In fact

one of the most successful people I ever met lived incredibly frugally and simply and reclusively and yet had cracked it in a really big way,  happiness , peace and contentment.
Almost all successful people have a sense of their own dignity. They are all pretty solid in themselves , they have worked out who they are and what they are about. They don't need to show off, brag about what they have or who they are. They don't need to draw attention to themselves because they aren't particularly interested in what we think, they are too busy getting on with things in their own lives. They maintain decorum not because they are frightened of making  a fool of themselves or falling on their face but because they simply can't be bothered with attention seeking stuffs.
It is important , if you want to be a successful person  to have show poise ,gravitas, be a bit different from the herd, have good manners , be polite and considerate and to be someone others might like to look up to. You can still have fun, just don't go making mockery of yourself . You can still let your hair down, just don't let go of control completely. You can still relax, just don't fall off the edge.
Dignity is about showing self respect and having quite self esteem. Its amazing how others will respect you and hold you in greater esteem when you start the ball rolling.

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